Making Big Moves: A No-Nonsense Guide to Trans Decisions

Lianna
Mar 4
2 min read

Your life is the sum of the decisions you make. Every major shift, every breakthrough, every up-level starts with one bold choice. But let’s be real—big decisions can feel overwhelming. The fear of making the wrong move? The overthinking? The endless what ifs? That’s where most people get stuck.

But not you. Not anymore.

If you’re standing at a crossroads and ready to make a move that actually changes your life, here’s how to do it with confidence, clarity, and zero regret.

Step 1: Get Crystal Clear on Your Vision

You can’t make the right move if you don’t know where you’re going. Before you

even weigh your options, ask yourself:

What do I truly want?
If fear wasn’t a factor, what would I choose?
Does this decision align with my highest self or my comfort zone?

💡 Pro tip: If you have to convince yourself why you should stay where you are, it’s already a sign you should move. (Read that again.)

Step 2: Remove Fear from the Equation

Big decisions feel terrifying because they force you out of what’s familiar. But here’s the thing: discomfort is a prerequisite for growth.

Fear usually means:

✅ You’re about to level up.

❌ Not that you’re making the wrong move.

The real question isn’t “What if I fail?” It’s “What if I don’t even try?” (And no, “waiting for a sign” doesn’t count. This is your sign.)

Step 3: Focus on the Impact, Not the Short-Term Comfort

Most people stay stuck because they make choices based on what feels safe right now—not what’s actually best for their future.

Ask yourself:

Which option aligns with the life I actually want?
If I say no to this opportunity, will I regret it in five years?
What’s the worst that could happen—and is it really worse than staying the same?

🔥 Your dream life isn’t coming to you. You have to go get it.

Step 4: Trust the First Answer That Comes to You

Your gut? It’s smarter than you think. The more you overanalyze, the more doubt creeps in.

Here’s a hack: Flip a coin. Not to decide for you—but to notice how you feel when the coin lands. If you feel relief, you have your answer. If you feel disappointment? You have your answer.

💡 Your intuition already knows. Trust it. (Seriously, it’s tired of repeating itself.)

Step 5: Take the Leap & Adjust As You Go

There’s no perfect decision—only action and course correction. You don’t need a 10-year plan. You just need to start.

Every major success story starts with someone saying, “I have no clue how this will work, but I’m doing it anyway.” That’s where the magic happens.

(Also, worst case? You pivot. Best case? You’re a genius. Either way, you win.)

The Bottom Line: Own Your Power & Move Forward

Every big decision you’ve made has led you here. Now it’s time for the next one.

If you’ve been overthinking, doubting, or waiting for a sign—this is it.

So, what’s the big decision you’ve been avoiding? And what happens if you make it today?

🔥 Drop a comment below or share this with someone who needs it. 🚀

(Or keep waiting for “the right moment.” Your call. 😉)